Steve Grand: All-American Boy. I love this song! It's a country song, and Steve is an out country singer. I mean as a country song, it's exactly like all the other great country music I listen to. Not to mention Steve is very easy on the eyes! LOL I hope he really gets his career going, he has talent! If you want to buy the song, please help him out here.
He doesn't have a label yet!
The internship is going well, I'm looking into maybe another one with a bit more to do. This is a small office, so IT wise there isn't an awful lot to do, but I'm definitely learning new stuff. I do like sitting with the guys and talking nerdy tech stuff, reminds of when I was in school. LOL
Hope everyone has a great week, I'm still plugging away studying for my MCITP. I'm amazed at how I just "get" some of this stuff. :) peace
Showing posts with label gay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gay. Show all posts
Sunday, July 7, 2013
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Things That Make Me Smile
Teenager Jacob Rudolph comes out to his parents, teachers, and his whole class during an awards ceremony. Now that took guts! I love the crowd's response, I think we are making progress. ;) peace
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Comment Post
Left this comment on a YouTube post http://bit.ly/9FfK4p I dunno, kinda liked it. It's true though, don't leave us gay youth. We need you.
I love the It Gets Better campaign! I did one on my blog also but it doesn't matter, to the gay youth, seriously It does Get Better. If you leave us,you leave our community and we need your voice. We need you dudes. If you think suicide is the way out, naw man, it's not. We need you. Please stay with us. ;) peace
I love the It Gets Better campaign! I did one on my blog also but it doesn't matter, to the gay youth, seriously It does Get Better. If you leave us,you leave our community and we need your voice. We need you dudes. If you think suicide is the way out, naw man, it's not. We need you. Please stay with us. ;) peace
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Gay Teen Suicide
It will get better.
So if you're a regular reader you know the gay mafia is always on the brink of taking my gay card! I'm not a part of the gay community, have no gay friends, I have had gay men tell me I'm "less than" because I like sports and cars and not shopping and theater, so yeah. Not a big fan of gay people. I'm not a self hater, I'm out, loud and proud and don't deny who I am, to anyone. So based on that you rarely see gay rights posts by me or actually, other than hot guys, anything gay related.
Well there is one thing that touches me amongst gay people, gay teen suicide. I had it easy coming out so I don't get it. I don't get how you could end your life, because people don't like you. It really touches me, especially the Matthew Shepard story, man, that gets me so mad...so angry. Well of course, I didn't know there were 4 highly publicized gay suicides last month, I knew of one but I guess there were a few more. Probably more than that, that didn't make the news, so I dunno I just felt I had to blog about it. I think most of my readers are straight women, lol! So cool with that, but if I perchance have any gay young readers and you are thinking of suicide, I fucking dare you to email me and tell me how you feel. Yeah I said it, I dare you, because you are not alone and suicide ends nothing but the happiness you will eventually feel for being who you are! You are not the weak one, you are not the weird one, you are not the one who "doesn't fit", you are who you are supposed to be. It's all of those people who are ignorant and haters who have the issues, you know who you are, do you really think YOU have the issues? lolz you don't. Think about it, you are the one who has their shit together. Take that to heart. I'm gonna leave you with a video by a dude who is pretty cool, he's a talented artist (he's hot) he makes sense in this YouTube vid and listen to him, he's talking the truth. It does get better! And whether you do the whole gay lifestyle and do gay pride and gay bars and gay friends, or, just prefer to be out, loud and proud and play sports and work on your 66 mustang, either way...you are okay and accepted. Gay doesn't have to be what you see on TV, I don't fit into that and I think I've been doing fine, for a long time! Enjoy Angelo's video he's a cool dude and he has a great singing voice, do a search on Twitter! ;)
So if you're a regular reader you know the gay mafia is always on the brink of taking my gay card! I'm not a part of the gay community, have no gay friends, I have had gay men tell me I'm "less than" because I like sports and cars and not shopping and theater, so yeah. Not a big fan of gay people. I'm not a self hater, I'm out, loud and proud and don't deny who I am, to anyone. So based on that you rarely see gay rights posts by me or actually, other than hot guys, anything gay related.
Well there is one thing that touches me amongst gay people, gay teen suicide. I had it easy coming out so I don't get it. I don't get how you could end your life, because people don't like you. It really touches me, especially the Matthew Shepard story, man, that gets me so mad...so angry. Well of course, I didn't know there were 4 highly publicized gay suicides last month, I knew of one but I guess there were a few more. Probably more than that, that didn't make the news, so I dunno I just felt I had to blog about it. I think most of my readers are straight women, lol! So cool with that, but if I perchance have any gay young readers and you are thinking of suicide, I fucking dare you to email me and tell me how you feel. Yeah I said it, I dare you, because you are not alone and suicide ends nothing but the happiness you will eventually feel for being who you are! You are not the weak one, you are not the weird one, you are not the one who "doesn't fit", you are who you are supposed to be. It's all of those people who are ignorant and haters who have the issues, you know who you are, do you really think YOU have the issues? lolz you don't. Think about it, you are the one who has their shit together. Take that to heart. I'm gonna leave you with a video by a dude who is pretty cool, he's a talented artist (he's hot) he makes sense in this YouTube vid and listen to him, he's talking the truth. It does get better! And whether you do the whole gay lifestyle and do gay pride and gay bars and gay friends, or, just prefer to be out, loud and proud and play sports and work on your 66 mustang, either way...you are okay and accepted. Gay doesn't have to be what you see on TV, I don't fit into that and I think I've been doing fine, for a long time! Enjoy Angelo's video he's a cool dude and he has a great singing voice, do a search on Twitter! ;)
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Kelly Rowland-Commander
Wow, this song is awesome, if she's going for a gay audience this would be the way! Kelly Rowland Ft. David Guetta - Commander (Ralphi Rosario Radio Edit / Tonic Remix VDO)
Sunday, June 13, 2010
Songs of Sunday
This is the first song I thought of when I woke up today. I have no idea why but it's going up as today's Song post. Does anybody else get the gay vibe from Kenny Chesney? I do, big time and especially from this video, once again, I don't know why but I just do. So when he comes out, you heard it hear first! lol
Kenny Chesney Old Blue Chair ;) peace
Kenny Chesney Old Blue Chair ;) peace
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
At the movies...
...and here is what I'll be watching. La Mission movie trailer. I can relate already just by watching the trailer!
"Growing up in the Mission district of San Francisco, Che Rivera (Benjamin Bratt) has always had to be tough to survive. He’s a powerful man respected throughout the Mission barrio for his masculinity and his strength, as well as for his hobby building beautiful lowrider cars. A reformed inmate and recovering alcoholic, Che has worked hard to redeem his life and do right by his pride and joy: his only son, Jes, whom he has raised on his own after the death of his wife. Che’s path to redemption is tested, however, when he discovers Jes is gay. To survive his neighborhood, Che has always lived with his fists. To survive as a complete man, he’ll have to embrace a side of himself he’s never shown."
Enjoy! ;) peace
"Growing up in the Mission district of San Francisco, Che Rivera (Benjamin Bratt) has always had to be tough to survive. He’s a powerful man respected throughout the Mission barrio for his masculinity and his strength, as well as for his hobby building beautiful lowrider cars. A reformed inmate and recovering alcoholic, Che has worked hard to redeem his life and do right by his pride and joy: his only son, Jes, whom he has raised on his own after the death of his wife. Che’s path to redemption is tested, however, when he discovers Jes is gay. To survive his neighborhood, Che has always lived with his fists. To survive as a complete man, he’ll have to embrace a side of himself he’s never shown."
Enjoy! ;) peace
Thursday, March 11, 2010
You Belong With Me (live)
From their original post: "The University of Rochester YellowJackets perform "You Belong With Me" originally by Taylor Swift. A music video parody of Taylor Swift's original was shot and played during the performance on stage. Watch the original first if you're not familiar with it. Here is the YellowJackets video combined with their live performance. "
I can't decide who's hotter...the jock or the nerd?? Love the Kanye reference at the end! lol ;) peace
I can't decide who's hotter...the jock or the nerd?? Love the Kanye reference at the end! lol ;) peace
Friday, February 5, 2010
Coming out.
One thing that I've noticed is that there are A LOT of gay blogs, with pics of hot men (including mine) talking about gay rights (mine, not so much)and a bunch of other stuff, but have you ever read a coming out story on a gay blog? I'm positive that there are plenty of gay blogs with coming out stories, I guess I'm just going to the blogs with hot men. LOL
Are coming out stories even relevant anymore to young people? Well I wanted to post mine, it's not dramatic or anything (well okay there are a COUPLE of moments, but compared to others...)but I thought I would share my story. I often feel like I'm blogging for others and I forget, this is my blog. So this post is for me, to share with you. Oh and no, this blog is not going all touchy feely, there will be hot men, posts of football and other random shit on here soon! lol Enjoy! ;) peace
oh and thanks to my Sexy Muse for the inspiration to post this.
I came out to myself and my cousin when I was 13, literally days after I turned 13. I didn't have any angst about it, no gray areas and no confusion...it was a very matter of fact coming out. Which is funny because I'm not really that black and white in my decision making! It went something like this...on the phone with cuz:
Me: Cuz, I think I'm gay.
Cuz: You think so, why?
Me: I'm attracted to boys, not girls, always have been. Would you be cool if I was?
Cuz: Of course.
Me: I'll think about it tonight and let you know tomorrow.
Cuz: Okay
I thought about it in bed that night and realized that yep, I was gay. First thought...wow I'm a fag, I'm who those people talk about when they call that boy at school a fag. Second thought...fuck it, I am what I am and I want don't want to look back on my life and regret not being who I am. Gotta go visit cuz after school tomorrow!
That was it, I feel so bad for so many gay men who just went through hell and back coming to terms with their sexuality or coming out. Have you seen Prayers for Bobby? I haven't seen it, but I read the book and man...to have that much self hate is just...mind boggling. I bawled all the way through that book!
At school the next day I was looking forward to coming out to my friends but I didn't want to tell them yet, I wanted to tell my cousin first. I went and told her after school and we talked about who was hot, I forget who I brought up but she brought up George Michael...she loved him! I told her he was gay, *I* knew even back then. lol I told some friends the next day at school and that was it. I was very lucky, I didn't lose one friend over coming out and actually made some new friends. That was high school.
Adult life was a bit different, I never felt comfortable coming out to my parents, we had only been in California for a few months when I came out in high school. We are from South Dakota originally (like all Lakota people are) :) and I was the first generation not born on the rez (reservation). So um, yeah, being gay and telling my parents just didn't really sit well with me. Their mentality was just not the same as the world we were living in now (SF Bay area). Hell, I was adjusting..I wore cowboy boots to school the first week! I think they knew though, my dad (used to be a drunk) once woke me up when I was 12 after a night of drinking and kept asking me if I was a queer. Actually, I was questioning that myself at the time, but didn't feel it would be in my best interest to share that info in that particular moment. I believe that is the ONLY time I have ever denied being gay. In high school, if I was asked, I always responded with a very calm and somewhat arrogant...yes. So sometimes a fight happened but that was okay, hello, I may not have been born on the rez but basically grew up on one...been scrapping my whole life. I'd like to say I won more than I lost...I was fighting with my heart.
I had just turned 21 when I "came out" to my family, I put that in quotes because it was more like my closet door got ripped off. I was coming home from work about 10 o'clock on a Saturday night, I pull up in front of our house and my brothers were outside with these big sticks in their hands. They came rushing to the car with these freaked out looks on their faces and I could hear my parents arguing in the house, first thing I think of is my mom so I'm ready to jump out of the car when my brother Bill tells me to go, to drive away. I was like what the hell is going on?? Turns out my dad came home drunk, started telling my mom I'm not welcome in the house because I'm a queer and when I come home from work he was gonna kick me out. That's why my brothers had the sticks, in case he got violent. How cool was that of my brothers? I'm still very close to Bill (where I'm visiting now in OR) but the younger one...we don't really talk, not because I'm gay but because...well I think he's bipolar. ;)
I was going to get out and just confront my dad but my brother kept pushing on the door, so I just left and I was pissed. I was 21 damn years old, and too old for this shit. I stayed with a friend and didn't go home for like 4 days and just ignored my mom's calls at work. I made the decision that they didn't have to LIKE the fact I was gay, but they would have to accept it...accept me. If not, I would have to cut off all ties because I can't live a lie, not even for them and I can't be who I am at certain times and some thing I'm not at other times. That's a very hard decision for anyone who comes from a close family, but coming from a Native family...it's kind of unheard of. I think a lot of minority groups are like that though. In any case, I finally talked to my mom...she said my dad feels bad and for me to come home. I did come home and me and mom had the heart to heart, my dad I never talked about it until a few years later (in a bar of course, that's where a lot of dads and sons bond lol) and that was it. All my relatives had no problem with it and come on...everyone had to have known.
So other than a couple blips with my dad (which was to be expected), I've haven't had much issues with coming out, being gay or being out. I have brought partners over for Thanksgiving and the whatnot. It's not a big deal and now since I'm unemployed and with no perm residence, my mom (and a few other family members) are suggesting a sugar daddy. *sigh* really? I am way too old for that! LOL (and for anyone getting in a huff, no I wouldn't do something like that).
My mom needs to quit watching cable!! LOL
So I would say I'm blessed, I've never lost any friends or had any relatives who didn't talk to me because of being gay. I really feel for people who are in the opposite boat though and get kicked out and all that. My dad's initial decision to kick me out was based on fear because it was so unknown to him but after he sobered up, he realized that regardless...I am his son...no matter what. And yes, he actually said those words to me. ;) peace
Are coming out stories even relevant anymore to young people? Well I wanted to post mine, it's not dramatic or anything (well okay there are a COUPLE of moments, but compared to others...)but I thought I would share my story. I often feel like I'm blogging for others and I forget, this is my blog. So this post is for me, to share with you. Oh and no, this blog is not going all touchy feely, there will be hot men, posts of football and other random shit on here soon! lol Enjoy! ;) peace
oh and thanks to my Sexy Muse for the inspiration to post this.
I came out to myself and my cousin when I was 13, literally days after I turned 13. I didn't have any angst about it, no gray areas and no confusion...it was a very matter of fact coming out. Which is funny because I'm not really that black and white in my decision making! It went something like this...on the phone with cuz:
Me: Cuz, I think I'm gay.
Cuz: You think so, why?
Me: I'm attracted to boys, not girls, always have been. Would you be cool if I was?
Cuz: Of course.
Me: I'll think about it tonight and let you know tomorrow.
Cuz: Okay
I thought about it in bed that night and realized that yep, I was gay. First thought...wow I'm a fag, I'm who those people talk about when they call that boy at school a fag. Second thought...fuck it, I am what I am and I want don't want to look back on my life and regret not being who I am. Gotta go visit cuz after school tomorrow!
That was it, I feel so bad for so many gay men who just went through hell and back coming to terms with their sexuality or coming out. Have you seen Prayers for Bobby? I haven't seen it, but I read the book and man...to have that much self hate is just...mind boggling. I bawled all the way through that book!
At school the next day I was looking forward to coming out to my friends but I didn't want to tell them yet, I wanted to tell my cousin first. I went and told her after school and we talked about who was hot, I forget who I brought up but she brought up George Michael...she loved him! I told her he was gay, *I* knew even back then. lol I told some friends the next day at school and that was it. I was very lucky, I didn't lose one friend over coming out and actually made some new friends. That was high school.
Adult life was a bit different, I never felt comfortable coming out to my parents, we had only been in California for a few months when I came out in high school. We are from South Dakota originally (like all Lakota people are) :) and I was the first generation not born on the rez (reservation). So um, yeah, being gay and telling my parents just didn't really sit well with me. Their mentality was just not the same as the world we were living in now (SF Bay area). Hell, I was adjusting..I wore cowboy boots to school the first week! I think they knew though, my dad (used to be a drunk) once woke me up when I was 12 after a night of drinking and kept asking me if I was a queer. Actually, I was questioning that myself at the time, but didn't feel it would be in my best interest to share that info in that particular moment. I believe that is the ONLY time I have ever denied being gay. In high school, if I was asked, I always responded with a very calm and somewhat arrogant...yes. So sometimes a fight happened but that was okay, hello, I may not have been born on the rez but basically grew up on one...been scrapping my whole life. I'd like to say I won more than I lost...I was fighting with my heart.
I had just turned 21 when I "came out" to my family, I put that in quotes because it was more like my closet door got ripped off. I was coming home from work about 10 o'clock on a Saturday night, I pull up in front of our house and my brothers were outside with these big sticks in their hands. They came rushing to the car with these freaked out looks on their faces and I could hear my parents arguing in the house, first thing I think of is my mom so I'm ready to jump out of the car when my brother Bill tells me to go, to drive away. I was like what the hell is going on?? Turns out my dad came home drunk, started telling my mom I'm not welcome in the house because I'm a queer and when I come home from work he was gonna kick me out. That's why my brothers had the sticks, in case he got violent. How cool was that of my brothers? I'm still very close to Bill (where I'm visiting now in OR) but the younger one...we don't really talk, not because I'm gay but because...well I think he's bipolar. ;)
I was going to get out and just confront my dad but my brother kept pushing on the door, so I just left and I was pissed. I was 21 damn years old, and too old for this shit. I stayed with a friend and didn't go home for like 4 days and just ignored my mom's calls at work. I made the decision that they didn't have to LIKE the fact I was gay, but they would have to accept it...accept me. If not, I would have to cut off all ties because I can't live a lie, not even for them and I can't be who I am at certain times and some thing I'm not at other times. That's a very hard decision for anyone who comes from a close family, but coming from a Native family...it's kind of unheard of. I think a lot of minority groups are like that though. In any case, I finally talked to my mom...she said my dad feels bad and for me to come home. I did come home and me and mom had the heart to heart, my dad I never talked about it until a few years later (in a bar of course, that's where a lot of dads and sons bond lol) and that was it. All my relatives had no problem with it and come on...everyone had to have known.
So other than a couple blips with my dad (which was to be expected), I've haven't had much issues with coming out, being gay or being out. I have brought partners over for Thanksgiving and the whatnot. It's not a big deal and now since I'm unemployed and with no perm residence, my mom (and a few other family members) are suggesting a sugar daddy. *sigh* really? I am way too old for that! LOL (and for anyone getting in a huff, no I wouldn't do something like that).
My mom needs to quit watching cable!! LOL
So I would say I'm blessed, I've never lost any friends or had any relatives who didn't talk to me because of being gay. I really feel for people who are in the opposite boat though and get kicked out and all that. My dad's initial decision to kick me out was based on fear because it was so unknown to him but after he sobered up, he realized that regardless...I am his son...no matter what. And yes, he actually said those words to me. ;) peace
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Monday, November 10, 2008
Katy Perry...
...I totally dig her new song Hot N Cold. Remember she sings I kissed a girl and You're so gay. ;) peace
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Where is Caylee?
Been watching Nancy Grace for awhile now regarding this missing child named Caylee. Okay help me out gay people, am I supposed to like Nancy Grace or not? I am such a bad gay, I know I am not supposed to care about a Dr. Laura? I think...in any case Nancy Grace seems like more of an instigator than a journalist. Yes, I can think for myself but trying to find my gayness again. ;) peace (not that watching a particular program means you're gay or straight) *disclaimer*
Monday, May 19, 2008
Gay Men Suck!
yeah yeah (insert jokes here) no really, ever been to Craigslist ? Have you checked out the M4M? It's all porn! All about sex hook ups and people showing their junk and their booties! I mean come on! Ok, ok, yes I've known it was like this for years and I never really thought about it. Well this past weekend, my cousin wanted to meet someone and I thought...why not CL? So I went and posted an ad for him in the straight section M4W (yes take my gay card now) and I was surprised at how the ads differed from ours! I mean, the W4M were so sweet and nice and the M4W were really genuine too! You can tell these people want relationships, not hook ups and quick anonymous BJ's, they really are looking for "the one". Ok so a very small percentage of the ads were geared a bit towards intimate situations, but a very small percentage and they sure as hell weren't as graphic as some of the ones I read in M4M. So after doing this for my cousin this weekend I started to think about society's perception of gay people, and how maybe they are a bit justified. If I was a straight person who went and read M4M on CL and then read the straight ads, I definitely would think gay men are just all about sex. I have a straight female friend who I'm chatting with online right now and we are looking at the M4W ads and she's like go to the M4M ads, and I was like...uh no, it's all porn and smut. How sad, I can't look for a potential partner on line with my friend and compare ads and giggle and talk about how cool he is, or how smart he sounds etc, because all my ads in my community listing show dick pics and graphic language. How sad. I mean I'm not a prude or anything but it just looks really bad for us and I feel bad for the straight guys who are looking for motorcycle buds or golfing buddies (I placed a golf ad once, oh lawd...the responses I got had nothing to do with golf!). It's a shame actually.
;) peace
;) peace
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
I rarely, no, wait never..
...post anything first or controversial, but this...I haven't seen, www.godtube.com and I have to say. I'm scurred, I saw this video and I was like WTF? First of all Kendall I'm sorry, no offense or anything but just needed to say what I had to say on this. First of all, "you can choose life or you can choose death?" um, I choose life...oooooh but if I don't choose Jesus, then I'm dead k, got it. They gonna talk about how "Mohamed can't set you free, Buddha can't set you free, but only Jesus can" ok come on now...isn't that a BIT opportunistic? I mean talk about recruiting! Then they are going to say the Devil is going to Hell, um isn't he the landlord? In my culture there is no devil or hell, then they say "but the Devil doesn't care if you're Buddhist or a Jehovah Witness, he just doesn't want you to be a born again Christian". So um, all you Buddhist and Jehova's...you cool...you going to Heaven, he don't want your souls. Then they say "we are living for God" no, no I'm not...God guides me (or whatever higher power you have) but He guides me and my life is free will, my life is mine given to me by my higher power. Then they do say "you're sins can be as white as snow"...ok, they come in colors? I hope mine are a rainbow. Anyways watch the video, express yourself...I honestly believe modern religion will fold upon it's self and collapse. Just like the Druids, most of the Wiccans and other religions that didn't have a PR rep did. I think there are more vids from these two, but really, I heard all I needed. ;-) peace (oh and when I say peace, I mean it, no strings attached).
..oh, and I would so DO the guy in the hat. :-D
..oh, and I would so DO the guy in the hat. :-D
Saturday, October 13, 2007
Small Town Gay Bar...
...I just saw this documentary tonight. It was really really good! Kevin Smith produced it. It was sad, it was funny it makes me happy I live in Cali. It's about two small gay bars in rural Mississippi. Like really small towns! If you watch it, the gays there are so happy to have some place to go, it's like mecca for them. Um, I got like 10 places to go right now if I wanted to kick it with gay people. It kind of took me back to my teens when I was coming out, that feeling of acceptance. Only these people were not teens. Amazing how there are still gays out there who are not out to their friends and parents. That really sounded lame, but I've been in Cali since I was 13, when I came out. If you can, watch it...it's on Netflix. ;-) peace
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Repost...
...I had a reader who asked if I could repost this blog. I was like why? and he said because it's important and not everyone has read it, as your blog has reached more people. Ok, nuff said. This is a repost of an IM convo with my brother, I think I held my own. ;-) peace
Homophobia...
...I'm going to post an IM session I had with my brother. I'm not sure if he's homophobic or not, he's come along way having a gay brother, but he definitely has conservative views when it comes to gay marriage. He's my brother and I love him, but we have very different views on the world today. Let me preface this by saying he loves the movie It's a Wonderful Life and he thinks I don't like it because it's wholesome and about family values. That's not true, I really don't like black and white movies or old movies (ok take my gay card) but that's just my thing. Here is the conversation that we had that started with the movie and ended up about gay marriage, byt the way I'm oglalaboy and my bro is Owen...
Owen: i'm tellin you... this movie is good!
Owen: it's wholesome with family values.... that's why you don't like it
oglalaboy: whatever, it's in black and white and all those people are dead...I live in the NOW...
Owen: you are a liberal..! you are against family values!
oglalaboy: no I'm for Family Vaules...but I don't discriminate against ALL families...as you do. Which is a contradiction, how can you say family values yet you PICK and CHOOSE which family's are allowed to be familys...that's a hypocrite and a small minded person.
oglalaboy: You really don't want to have this converstaion with me.
Owen: we have to have boundries as as society
Owen: and the boundries of a traditional houshold consists of man and woman!!
oglalaboy: boundaries? or bigoted lines drawn by overzealous bigots?
oglalaboy: Well you know, we don't live in traditional times anymore do we?
oglalaboy: we are in modern times and fight as much as you want, but times are changing.
Owen: well.. it's up to consertive people like me to keep a hold on civilizaion and keep things sane for future generations
oglalaboy: women don't stay home and cook and clean and most kids up to 5 don't even believe in santa clause but they know how to hook up a dvd player...it's a different world and you either join or just be a dinosaur and let the world pass you by.
oglalaboy: you'll lose
oglalaboy: it's already happening. There are 5 countries that allow gay marriage, there is one State that allows gay marriage there are 3 states that allow gay civil unions (same as marriage rights, just not the same name as gay marriage)...it's just a matter of time before the world realizes we are all the same and we can all love and we can all be productive members of society.
oglalaboy: the religious movement is failing, the leader of the biggest church in Colorado has resigned because he was outed as paying a MALE prositute for sex...the leader of the SECOND biggest church in Colorado...also came out the of closet and has resigned. The religious movement is failing because people realize it's all a sham.
Owen: well... right now.... i'm watching it's a wonderful life.. along with a lot of people in this country.... and i'm sure they are all not thinking of the pervert men who want to marry men and the men who want marry their toaster next!!
oglalaboy: And you know what? I know right now there are a lot of gay couples who are watching it's a wonderful life also, with their kids and with their partners, so it's just not for you conservative (small minded ignorant) people...life...is for everyone to enjoy. As a matter of fact, it's a wonderful life is the favorite movie of the majority of my lesbian friends. They watch it with their kids. And to think there is no difference between a man marrying a man and a man marrying a toaster is not only ignorant, but it also shows the lack of intellegence amongst people who think that. I think Delta (a junior college) will do you good, you need an education.
Owen has signed out. (12/24/2006 8:31 PM)
heh heh, like most repubican conservatives, he had to change channels! ;-) I'm sure he went to check the status of Iraqs WMD's. ;-) peace
Homophobia...
...I'm going to post an IM session I had with my brother. I'm not sure if he's homophobic or not, he's come along way having a gay brother, but he definitely has conservative views when it comes to gay marriage. He's my brother and I love him, but we have very different views on the world today. Let me preface this by saying he loves the movie It's a Wonderful Life and he thinks I don't like it because it's wholesome and about family values. That's not true, I really don't like black and white movies or old movies (ok take my gay card) but that's just my thing. Here is the conversation that we had that started with the movie and ended up about gay marriage, byt the way I'm oglalaboy and my bro is Owen...
Owen: i'm tellin you... this movie is good!
Owen: it's wholesome with family values.... that's why you don't like it
oglalaboy: whatever, it's in black and white and all those people are dead...I live in the NOW...
Owen: you are a liberal..! you are against family values!
oglalaboy: no I'm for Family Vaules...but I don't discriminate against ALL families...as you do. Which is a contradiction, how can you say family values yet you PICK and CHOOSE which family's are allowed to be familys...that's a hypocrite and a small minded person.
oglalaboy: You really don't want to have this converstaion with me.
Owen: we have to have boundries as as society
Owen: and the boundries of a traditional houshold consists of man and woman!!
oglalaboy: boundaries? or bigoted lines drawn by overzealous bigots?
oglalaboy: Well you know, we don't live in traditional times anymore do we?
oglalaboy: we are in modern times and fight as much as you want, but times are changing.
Owen: well.. it's up to consertive people like me to keep a hold on civilizaion and keep things sane for future generations
oglalaboy: women don't stay home and cook and clean and most kids up to 5 don't even believe in santa clause but they know how to hook up a dvd player...it's a different world and you either join or just be a dinosaur and let the world pass you by.
oglalaboy: you'll lose
oglalaboy: it's already happening. There are 5 countries that allow gay marriage, there is one State that allows gay marriage there are 3 states that allow gay civil unions (same as marriage rights, just not the same name as gay marriage)...it's just a matter of time before the world realizes we are all the same and we can all love and we can all be productive members of society.
oglalaboy: the religious movement is failing, the leader of the biggest church in Colorado has resigned because he was outed as paying a MALE prositute for sex...the leader of the SECOND biggest church in Colorado...also came out the of closet and has resigned. The religious movement is failing because people realize it's all a sham.
Owen: well... right now.... i'm watching it's a wonderful life.. along with a lot of people in this country.... and i'm sure they are all not thinking of the pervert men who want to marry men and the men who want marry their toaster next!!
oglalaboy: And you know what? I know right now there are a lot of gay couples who are watching it's a wonderful life also, with their kids and with their partners, so it's just not for you conservative (small minded ignorant) people...life...is for everyone to enjoy. As a matter of fact, it's a wonderful life is the favorite movie of the majority of my lesbian friends. They watch it with their kids. And to think there is no difference between a man marrying a man and a man marrying a toaster is not only ignorant, but it also shows the lack of intellegence amongst people who think that. I think Delta (a junior college) will do you good, you need an education.
Owen has signed out. (12/24/2006 8:31 PM)
heh heh, like most repubican conservatives, he had to change channels! ;-) I'm sure he went to check the status of Iraqs WMD's. ;-) peace
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
Kathy Griffin
Love her and saw her in person!
Oh and this clip from Knocked Up which was deleted...funny as shit! Hmmm...wonder why it was deleted... ??
enjoy and I know, I know...I will get some hot men pics on here tomorrow! ;-)
peace
Oh and this clip from Knocked Up which was deleted...funny as shit! Hmmm...wonder why it was deleted... ??
enjoy and I know, I know...I will get some hot men pics on here tomorrow! ;-)
peace
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
ooooh shit, POPPIN!
ok who remembers poppin...well this is asian style and they do it good!! ;-) peace
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
It's All About the Eyes...
...it's been awhile since I posted some beautiful eyes, of course I had to put a pic of William Levy in there!! Second interview went very well, I should know this week. Other than that not a whole lot going on, other than I'm getting bored! The first week off was nice and much needed, this week, I'm a bit restless...on the other hand...all my laundry is done!! I've also watched more DVD's than I have in the past year, in the past week and a half. The return of Heroes has been awesome also! Who would have thought Sylar was president!! You could have knocked my ass over with a feather!! Only 3 episodes left this season...then I go insane over the summer waiting for the new season! Ok, yeah um, I'm a bit obsessed with this program!! At least I'm not out getting into trouble (which means this summer I will when the show is on hiatus!) have a great night! ;-) peace
p.s. as usual click the pic for a larger image!
p.s. as usual click the pic for a larger image!
Saturday, January 20, 2007
God Hates Fags...
...ok, my friend Angela likes to make me cry (this is similar to a post I did awhile ago, but she's doing it again.) So, she tricked me into seeing It's My Party, I sobbed like a bitch on that one...while cursing her simple ass out! So every once in awhile she sends me Youtube videos..about hate, about discrimination, about homophobia...about violence towards gay people. Ok, last time she bombarded me, I blogged it AND THEN cursed her simple ass out again and that was it. Well, she's back it. She sent me the following video. The thing is, when she sends me these videos there are like a hundred more of the same subject and I end up watching them (instead of downloading hot guys for my blog!) and...well...I cry. I don't know if I cry because I'm sad or because I'm pissed. I'm pissed because to get beat because of who you love is senseless...it's the innermost cause of ignorance. To kill in the name of God is such hypocrisy that it is laughable. If you wanna step up and fight me, fight because I said you butt ugly and your momma shoulda flushed you. Fight me because I spit in your food when I served it, fight me because I'm a pedophile or a rapist...fight me because I'm Bush. Have a reason, don't fight me because I love my boyfriend, don't fight me because he cooks me dinner and I think it's cute when he's late in the morning and can't find his keys. Don't fight me because I forgot to pay the light bill and they are threatening to turn us off and he's chewing me out for it. Don't fight me because we just bought a house and are planning our lives together. Don't fight me, because I'm me. Now the thing here is...I said the word fight, fight involves two people...I didn't use the word BEAT...I think that's key. It's key in the fact that if someone PLANS to beat me for who I love and who I am...they are going to get a fight...and I won't back down. Because for every blow you put on me, I will put two on you, one for me and one for Matthew Shepard and every other gay person who has been beat because of who they are...and who they love. You won't be able to beat that rage. I have, fortunately, never been gay bashed...oh yeah, I've had straight men come up to me and ask if I'm gay...and I say yes, yes...so? Maybe it's my demeanor, maybe it's the look in my eyes like "say something, what?" I dunno. But for my gay people out there...don't take it...don't let yourself be intimidated...don't let that first hit be your last. Take a self defense class, learn karate..or just think of Matthew Shepard, tied to that fence and left to die. Let that anger come through..and protect yourself. I do not advocate violence or to be a vigilante, just...don't allow it. Step up. Love you and protect you. ;-) peace
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